You can’t please everyone. Trying will pull you apart. One of the most important decisions we can make is whom to please.
If you’re still caught on the comparison treadmill and have noticed you’re not getting anywhere, you might consider getting off. Comparison involves outward struggle to appear better than others and inward struggle at not measuring up. Neither is worth the effort. If you could convince everyone, including yourself, that you were best at everything, you wouldn’t rise one little notch in God’s sight.